Self-Harm & Suicidal Ideation: Through the Lens of NVR

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Self-Harm & Suicidal Ideation: Through the Lens of NVR

Train with the leading & award-winning provider of Non-Violent Resistance Training for Professionals

Join our exclusive one-day online workshop with David Toland, ‘Self-Harm & Suicidal Ideation: Through the Lens of NVR’

The workshop will be brought to you LIVE online via Zoom on Tuesday 10th June 2025, and is open to NVR Professionals.

This workshop is also available privately in-house, contact us for prices for your team. Email: training@partnershipprojectsuk.com.

About the Workshop

Join us for the impactful workshop, Self-Harm & Suicidal Ideation: Through the Lens of NVR, where we explore how Non-Violent Resistance (NVR) principles can provide a guiding framework of support for young people, families, carers, and professionals navigating self-harming behaviours and suicide. Using a trauma-informed perspective, this workshop equips participants with practical strategies, carefully crafted ‘announcements’, and the transformative “sit in” and “sit with” techniques. These tools are designed to reduce escalation, foster deeper connections, build resilience, and strengthen strong parental presence.

Participants will engage in critical discussions that differentiate vigilant care and a calm, supportive presence from what can be intrusive or oppressive monitoring of young people that may unintentionally escalate these behaviours and risks. Drawing from Haim Omer’s influential work, we will explore how non-escalatory strategies like parental anchoring and reconciliation gestures can significantly reduce conflict while enhancing safety and connection (Omer, 2004).

By reflecting on essential self-care practices, this workshop empowers participants to develop their skills in ‘being NVR’ and view crises as setbacks and opportunities which can be pivotal opportunities for change. This workshop is aimed at professionals helping families and professionals create safer, more connected environments and treatment plans that nurture well-being and resilience, empowering families and professionals to create safer, more connected interventions.

Learning Outcomes:

By the end of this workshop, participants will be able to:

  • Understand how NVR principles can be applied to cases involving self-harm and suicidal ideation.
  • Identify strategies to reduce risk and escalatory responses and foster anchoring connections between parents, young people, their families and community members.
  • Apply trauma-informed principles to address relational and contextual factors contributing to self-harming behaviours.
  • Equip parents, carers and professionals with tools to provide vigilant care and support without reinforcing escalatory patterns, increasing anxiety or accommodation.
  • Engage a supportive network of professionals, carers, and family members to create a containment and multi-point anchoring framework for at-risk individuals.
  • Use non-escalatory communication strategies, such as announcements and supporter announcements, to de-escalate crises, reduce risk and foster relational repair through parental presence.
  • Utilise evidence-based NVR practices and strategies to address self-harm and suicidal ideation effectively.
  • Recognise the importance of self and collective care for professionals and carers to sustain the emotional demands of the implementation of NVR to support high-risk cases.

The Statistics:

  • One in six children aged 5 to 16 were identified as having a probable mental health problem in July 2021, a significant increase from one in nine in 2017. This equates to five children in every classroom.
  • The number of A&E attendances by young people aged 18 or under with a recorded diagnosis of a psychiatric condition more than tripled between 2010 and 2018-19.
  • 83% of young people with mental health needs agreed that the COVID pandemic had made their mental health worse.
  • In 2018-19, 24% of 17-year-olds reported having self-harmed in the previous year, and 7% reported having self-harmed with suicidal intent at some point in their lives. Additionally, 16% reported high levels of psychological distress.
  • Suicide was the leading cause of death for males and females aged between 5 to 34 in 2019.

Nearly half of 17-19-year-olds with a diagnosable mental health disorder have self-harmed or attempted suicide at some point, rising to 52.7% for young women.^

Additional Statistics and References:

  • Self-harm is one of the leading causes of hospital admissions among young people, with an increase of 68% in hospital presentations for 13-18-year-olds between 2011 and 2014 in England (NHS Digital, 2019).
  • Suicide remains a leading cause of death among people aged 10–24 years in the UK, with rates rising over the past decade (ONS, 2023).
  • NVR helps parents transition from helplessness to presence, significantly reducing relational escalations and promoting parental self-control (Weinblatt & Omer, 2008).
  • The containment phase of NVR, incorporating announcements, vigilant care and persistent presence, supports parents in creating an anchoring framework that reduces suicidal tendencies and promotes resilience (Omer & Dulberger, 2015).

^Statistics quoted from youngminds.org

Meet David Toland

David Toland

I have over 20 years of experience in children’s social care and mental health services, specialising in trauma-informed and systemic approaches. I have extensive experience working alongside professionals and carers in supporting children and families in complex cases where self-harm and suicidal ideation and behaviours are present. I am a national trainer for Mental Health First Aid England© and the trauma practice lead for Hertfordshire Specialist Services. My role is to support services in training and working alongside professionals, carers and families in addressing the needs of children and families with a range of mental health challenges and behaviours, including anxiety, suicidal ideation, and self-harming behaviours. This includes working across residential social care and community outreach settings, utilising specialist and clinically approved interventions, such as Non-Violent Resistance (NVR). 

I am an Accredited NVR (NVRA) and SPACE© trained practitioner and I have considerable experience in the practical use of NVR principles in complex cases, including those involving self-harm and suicide. I am completing my studies in Systemic Psychotherapy at the Institute for Family Therapy, focusing on the relationship between trauma-informed and systemic approaches to working with families. My work centres on creating reflective, relationally connected spaces that empower practitioners, carers, and parents in treating children where self-harm or suicidal ideation may be present while fostering connectedness, resilience, and relational repair.

Important Information

How much does it cost?

Early Bird Tickets: £135+VAT*

Full Price: £150+VAT

Groups Discounts:

Save 10% for groups of 10 or more,

or save 15% for groups of 20 or more.

Also available to book privately in-house for your team, email: training@partnershipprojectsuk.com for more info.

What is included?

– 1x Full Day Workshop – with networking and Q&A
– Confirmation of Attendance Certificate with CPD points
– Training Slides

When & Where?

When:

Tuesday 10th June 2025, 9:30am to 4:30pm

Where:

Hosted LIVE online via Zoom Pro

Who Can Attend?

The workshop is open to practitioners in CAMHS, mental health, social care, education, youth justice and the independent sector, who already have an understanding of the core principles of NVR.

Also available for Group Bookings, contact us today for a free no-obligation consultation & quote.

Email: training@partnershipprojectsuk.com

Why train with us?

*Early bird tickets available until the 30th April 2025